National Maternal Mental Health Hotline - 24/7, Free, Confidential Hotline for before, during and after pregnancy. Offers resources, referrals and support. Interpreter Services are available in 60 languages.
1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262)
Call or Text: 1-833-9-HELP4MOMS (1-833-943-5746 ; English and Spanish) | Website
The Motherhood Center - The Motherhood Center aims to educate, diagnose, and treat moms/birthing parents suffering from perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs) otherwise, known as postpartum depression. - (212) 335-0034 | Day Program Brochure | Support Groups |
ProjectTeach - offers perinatal support and resources for patients and their primary care providers to better serve the maternal, pediatric and other mental healthcare needs of families
KindBody
The Postpartum Resource Center of New York, Inc. - a nonprofit IRS-recognized 501(c)(3) organization in New York State representing perinatal mood and anxiety disorders support and education. The founders recognized the need for education, treatment, and support services regarding postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis.
Postpartum Support International - Helpline | Text "Help" to 800-944-4773 | App "Connect by PSI" |. Birth and Postpartum Doulas
NYU Langone - Fertility Center, Reproductive Specialists and Pregnancy
Birth & Postpartum Doulas (national)
Boober - Help for finding Doulas, Lactation Consultants, Childbirth & postnatal classes
Mommy Poppins - local resources for parents, including activities for young families, new moms, "mommy and me" and "daddy and me" classes, etc.
Infertility
Post-Partum Depression
Smart Patients' Post Partum Community - @smartpatientscommunity - an online forum for women affected by #PPD
Post-Partum Depression & Anxiety in Partners (Non-birthing individuals)
Breastfeeding
La Leche League of New York - Helping mothers worldwide to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, encouragement, information, and, education.
LLL USA is committed to helping families reach their nursing and human milk feeding goals. Leaders are trained parent volunteers who offer free information and support to help you. For the convenience of parents everywhere, we Provides individualized support as well as group meet-ups in person and virtual. Meetings are free and offer a place to find a community of parents who share an interest in breastfeeding, pumping, and human milk feeding experiences, information, questions, and concerns. Find more info about what happens at a Meeting.
Boober - Help for finding Doulas, Lactation Consultants, Childbirth & postnatal classes
Getting back into the workforce
Parenting Education
Pregnancy and Infant Loss (PAIL)
Please see the Grief & Loss Resource Page for more.
Postpartum Support International (PSI), NY Chapter - Offers a network of perinatal mental health specialists, a hotline, support groups, resources, advocacy, research, counseling and community to support pregnant women, their families and providers during and after pregnancy. Support groups specific to a range of identities and focii including Dads, Parenting after Loss, Pregnancy after Stillbirth and Loss, Black Moms in Loss, Birth Moms Support, Birth Trauma for BIPOC Families and Pregnancy Mood Support.
PSI Helpline: call or text 1-800-944-4773 | en Español: 971-203-7773 | Instagram | Support Groups | Queer & Trans Parent Support | Online Provider Directory
RTZ HOPE - Support for the LGBTQI+ bereaved parents community.
What to Expect - helps to track your pregnancy, provide articles and resources along your pregnancy journey for both you and your partner, and a better understanding of your body's changes.
Expectful - Mindfulness app to help support you throughout your pregnancy journey
New Mom Self-Care: 16 Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health in Early Parenthood, from Zencare. Accessed 8.31.23.
‘Graduating’ From an Infertility Support Group? Expect a mix of happiness and resentment, from The New York Times (Apr. 17, 2020).
Compromising When You Have Different Parenting Styles - TwoOfUs.org
Twelve Hours' Sleep by Twelve Weeks Old: A Step-by-Step Plan for Baby Sleep Success by Suzy Giordano & Lisa Abidin.
Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom Is Wrong--and What You Really Need to Know (2014) by Emily Oster.
Real Food for Pregnancy: The Science and Wisdom of Optimal Prenatal Nutrition (2018) by Lily Nichols.
Arrival Stories: Women Share Their Experiences of Becoming Mothers (2022) by Amy Schumer (Editor) & Christy Turlington Burns (Editor).
Peleton has a plethora of pre- and post-natal workout videos
Core Workout during Pregnancy to prevent Ab Separation / Diastasis Recti
The Doctors Bjorkman - An OBGYN & Pediatrician couple gives advice and resources.
Dad Verb - Content for new parents and young families from a dad's perspective
What to Expect From Couples Therapy. Lifehacker.com. (June 10, 2013).
When to Seek Help: 6 Signs a Relationship Is Unhealthy. Psychology Today. (June 1, 2022).
The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. From the Gottman Institute.
See below for a 2-min video describing the 4 Horsemen.
4 Anxious Attachment Strategies That Sabotage Intimate Relationships on KyleBenson.net
Why Some of Us Overlook Red Flags in Toxic Relationships. Psychology Today (Jan. 2, 2023).
How to Set Boundaries with Yourself. Psychology Today (Jan. 1, 2023).
When I Get That Boring Feeling: Sex as Escape from Boredom by Andrew Moynihan in Inquisitive Mind (Feb. 2021).
The Power of Attunement from Parenting Success Network (Jan. 22, 2019).
Finding Emotional Connection/Attunement from All Emotional Matters - Link
Finally set (and stick to) healthy work boundaries on Sanvello's Blog (March 31, 2022).
The Modern Love Podcast from The New York Times. --> It has been turned into a book and TV series!
The Mel Robbins Podcast episode "How to Speak Up for Yourself: Simple Strategies for Being Heard." - Learn about how to set boundaries in friendships, handle criticism, starting hard conversations and dealing with "difficult people."
In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us in on the mystery of erotic intelligence.
Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so traumatic: because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, she sees something unexpected — an expression of longing and loss. A must-watch for anyone who has ever cheated or been cheated on, or who simply wants a new framework for understanding relationships.
The Growth Marriage. "An Introduction To Anxious Attachment With Kyle Benson" of the Gottman Love Lab
Gottman, J. & Silver, N. (2015). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. - Amazon link
Johnson, S. (2008). Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. - Amazon Link
Nedra Glover Tawwab:
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A guide to reclaiming yourself (March 16, 2021), TarcherPerigee.
Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships (Feb. 28, 2023), TarcherPerigee.
5 Key Ideas (Audio by author) | Amazon Link | Key Tips in The New York Times (March 8, 2023).
Kerner, I. (2004). She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. - Amazon Link
Behrendt, G. & Ruotola-Behrendt, A. (2005). It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy. - Amazon
Gottlieb, L. (2010). Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough. - Amazon
Nagoski, E. (2015). Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life. - Amazon
The ADHD Effect on Marriage (2010). by Melissa Orlov. ADHDMarriage.com
Self-Quizzes on Attachment Styles at "The Attachment Project" on Boundaries
TwoOfUs.org
National Healthy Marriage Resource Center - link
The Marriage Minute is an email newsletter from The Gottman Institute.